Lord, help me to be a good wife. I fully realize that I don’t have what it takes to be one without Your help. Take my selfishness, impatience, and irritability and turn them into kindness, long-suffering, and the willingness to bear all things. Take my old emotional habits, mind-sets, automatic reactions, rude assumptions, and self-protective stance, and make me patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and self-controlled. Take the hardness of my heart and break down the walls with Your battering ram of revelation. Give me a new heart and work in me Your love, peace, and joy (Galatians 5:22-23). I am not able to rise above who I am at this moment. Only You can transform me. Show me where there is sin in my heart, especially with regard to my husband. I confess the times I’ve been unloving, critical, angry, resentful, disrespectful, or unforgiving toward him. Help me to put aside any hurt, anger, or disappointment I feel and forgive him the way You d

Do you want to use your strength to figure out a way for your self or you will choose to depend on God's Grace for your life? Whatsoever God's Grace has not given you, you don't need it. I want you to be comfortable with your present lacks and be humble in your present provision. Your value is not about what you HAVE but it's all about WHO you are. Never you forget that. Where you are now does not in any way define WHO you are. Where you are presently in life is just a passing phase. Those people that thinks they know you now because of what you lack and where are now are MAKING A BIG MISTAKE. The truth is this; they don't have a clue to who you are becoming daily in Christ. Those that want to mock you should continue. Those that insult you should continue. Those that despise you should continue. Lift your eyes from them. Look ahead and see the beauty of your future in Christ. You are of a high breed of God's Grace. You are not in their low class.

Worship is not just a song but a lifestyle. Worship is not about the sound or music. Worship is an attitude. Worship to God is in every thing we do, see, think, desire and expect. Worship to God is the way you treat people (even when you are angry). Worship to God is in what you do when you are excited. Worship to God is in how you listen to people in conversation. Worship to God is how you depend on God for making every single decision of your life. Worship to God is in your polite words to people. Worship to God is in how you manage your sexual urge. Worship to God is in the choice of the kind of website you vision online. Worship to God in the way you forgive, love, and have compassion on people. Worship to God is in the way you discipline, rebuke and correct people (as God's children). Worship to God is in how you breakup with some one you are dating with the consciousness that this person you are breaking up with is still precious to God. Worship to God is the ki

Here are the qualities that these real men are looking for in their  brides-to-be:  Realness It’s sometimes hard to believe that being “real” is attractive to a man.  I think it’s easy for women to look at the billboards and magazines that fill their minds with airbrushed beauty and enhanced bodies and think that being real makes you less than the others.  But I’ve found that real men are attracted to a woman who reveals her natural self. There is something about the beauty of a real woman that far exceeds the plastic Barbie version of their selves that women so much strive for and believe in. But men are not simply looking for a woman who is real with her appearance, but real with who she is.  When it comes to attracting a real man, there is no need to pretend.  They’re not looking for a woman who pretends to be into sports, cars, sex, or anything else she thinks her man wants.  They are looking for a woman to be fully herself…personality, quirks, deficits and all.  

What can a single person do to make themselves “available” without looking desperate? You’re approaching your mid-twenties, mid-thirties, and maybe even mid-forties as a single young adult.  It seems like everyone around you is getting ushered into the world of love and marriage, while you find yourself wondering if you will ever find the one.  You’re torn between trusting God to bring you the right one- and working it in the world of love and dating.   So, how exactly does a single young adult make themselves available without seeming too desperate? The only way to avoid looking desperate is to stop believing that you are, because a person will appear as desperate as they feel.  The more fixated you are on finding love and obsessed about entering marriage, the more desperate you will appear, because eventually, the things that you think about most start seeping into every part of your life for the whole world to see. Here are some ways to stop fixating on your fears and

If you’re anything like many of the single women I’ve come into contact with, you have pretty much given up on the idea of being recklessly pursued by a man. Forget the fairy-tale dream of being chased after in an attempt to win your heart.  Forget the love letters, the roses, the poems and songs.  Forget it all. At this point in life,  you’ll settle for about any sign of pursuit…heck, any sign of life from the opposite sex. So what is it about these guys that is keeping them from pursuing you?  Why have so many men failed to step it up and make the move? Though I can’t speak from all men... I have spoken to a number of friends and gotten a lot of feedback.  Let me fill you in a little on what some of them might be thinking: 1.  He doesn’t know you’re interested:  Ladies here’s the thing about you- you think you can read everyone’s mind.  But believe it or not, that super-hero power doesn’t exist…and it especially doesn’t exist when it comes to the men in your lives.   The