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How to become a WIFE

I have come to discover through the teachings from the Holy Spirit that the space between being a lady and becoming a wife is ENCOUNTER WITH THE LORD. 

The mindset of a wife, the attitude of a wife, the planning of a wife, the concept and perception of a wife and manner of approach of a wife is totally different from a lady. 

A wife mentality is future considerate in every decision but a ladies mindset is now and now. She wants it now!. 

A lady wants to survive but a wife takes her time to invest in her self. She is conscious of her journey in life than the present comfort. 

Becoming a wife is not by wedding grown or engagement ring on your finger. It's a total experience of life and mindset. It's not even possible to be translated from being a lady into becoming a wife without a DIVINE ENCOUNTER with the Holy Spirit.  

The bible stated it that, he that finds a WIFE finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord. 
It's not he who finds a lady. 

Beloved of God! 

Stop glorying in being a lady and open your heart to God to translate you into becoming a wife. It's not by strength or reading books. 

This is a deliberate surrending to the Holy Spirit to transform your mindset, attitude and perception into the nature of a wife. 

Being a wife is a lifestyle and a thinking pattern. A wife material doesn't show off or become insecure. A wife is a lady that has being transformed into a mindset built with responsibility and accountability to destiny.  

Be deliberate about your life. 

I celebrate you all!

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