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THE PURPOSE OF A WOMAN

A woman is not merely a female; she is a divine expression of God’s intention and design. Genesis 1:27 tells us, "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." In God’s wisdom, He did not just create a gender; He crafted a vessel of strength, beauty, intuition, and influence. A woman is a nurturer, a helper, a solution, and an atmosphere carrier. She is not weak or secondary—she is essential. Have you ever considered how much impact your presence brings to a room, a relationship, a vision, or even a broken heart?

Why is a woman needed? Because purpose demanded her existence. When God said in Genesis 2:18, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him," He wasn’t creating a servant—He was raising a partner. A woman is God’s solution to the problem of incompleteness. Her words comfort, her womb nurtures life, her heart discerns, and her hands build. Think about this: where would the world be without the influence, insight, and intercession of a woman? How many destinies have been shaped because a woman showed up, stood up, or spoke up?

Yet, not every woman is a wife, and not every wife fully embraces the essence of womanhood. Being a woman is about identity, while being a wife is about responsibility. A woman is born; a wife is built. Proverbs 18:22 says, "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord." Notice, it didn’t say “he who finds a woman”—there is a transformation required. A wife is a woman who has chosen to align her identity with a purpose beyond herself, to partner in building a home, a future, and sometimes even a legacy. Can you see the difference?

A woman can command influence in any field—ministry, business, leadership, or motherhood—but a wife is a covenant carrier. She submits, supports, and strengthens not because she is weak, but because she understands her power. Ephesians 5:22-23 often gets misunderstood, but when properly discerned, it shows a woman who chooses to walk in divine order, knowing that her submission is not silence but strategy. Ask yourself—am I just growing in gender, or am I maturing in assignment?

So, dear lady, who are you becoming? Are you waiting to be chosen before you begin becoming a wife in character, in wisdom, in spirit? Or are you mastering womanhood with no intentionality toward purpose-driven partnership? Remember, Ruth was a woman before she became Boaz’s wife, but it was her posture, honor, and responsibility that revealed her readiness. Are you ready?

In conclusion, being a woman is God’s gift to you, but becoming a wife—whether literally in marriage or symbolically in responsibility and maturity—is your gift back to God, society, and destiny. Let this be your reflection: am I cultivating the kind of spirit, stability, and strength that will make heaven proud and the earth better because I was here? You are more than you think, and it’s time to walk in that light. “Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the days to come” (Proverbs 31:25). May that be your testimony.

Prince Victor Matthew. 

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