In today’s world, many behaviors are wrongly labeled as “normal” in relationships. Some women think it’s acceptable to disrespect a man, control him, mold him into their personal fantasy, gaslight him when they are wrong, and still demand unconditional love. The truth is, this mindset is not only toxic but completely unbiblical. If you are practicing these attitudes and still claim to be a godly woman, it’s time to pause and examine your heart before God. Disrespecting a man is not godly. God’s Word commands respect in relationships as a foundational principle for love and harmony. Ephesians 5:33 says, “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” When you think it is okay to dishonor, insult, or disregard a man’s feelings and worth, you are acting contrary to God’s instruction. Disrespect destroys trust and unity, and no relationship can thrive where dishonor is celebrated. Control is manipulation,...

In God's original design, a husband is not just a provider of physical needs but a carrier of spiritual purpose and a covering of divine protection. For the married woman, your husband’s purpose is not something separate from your life—it is a prophetic alignment in which you were divinely included. To benefit from that covering, you must first understand it. Your husband’s purpose isn’t just about what he does; it’s about who God called him to be. It shapes his decisions, his priorities, and even his pace in life. And if you do not discern it, you might become a distraction in a direction you were meant to support. Purpose is what gives marriage rhythm. When a wife understands this, she doesn’t just love her husband emotionally—she supports him intentionally. Being under a man’s covering is not about suppression or silence—it’s about structure and safety. God places order in relationships not to cage us but to protect us. Submission is not weakness; it is wisdom. A woman under spi...

If you dislike instructions and correction, you will inevitably struggle in life, ministry, and even in your premarital relationship or marriage. God has designed life in such a way that growth comes through guidance, discipline, and humility. When you refuse to be instructed or corrected, you cut yourself off from the very process that shapes character and prepares you for greater responsibilities. Proverbs 12:1 says, "Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid." This scripture may sound harsh, but it reveals a truth we must embrace: correction is not punishment; it is a pathway to wisdom and maturity. As a lady of godly value, your ability to submit to divine instructions and accept correction will determine how well you flourish in your purpose and relationships. Ministry demands teachability, and relationships require humility. A heart that resists correction often becomes proud and unyielding, which can poison a home or derail a call...