Dear Daughter of God, In this journey of life, don’t just fix your eyes on wedding gowns, proposals, or becoming the perfect wife someday. Go deeper. Learn how to relate with people — how to listen, how to speak with wisdom, how to walk away peacefully, how to say sorry, and how to carry another person's burden without losing your own identity. These are not just skills for marriage, but for life. Human relationship is the field where your godly character is tested and refined. And life, my dear, is full of seasons — some that will make you smile, and others that will challenge your very faith. Prepare for both.
You are not just a woman waiting to be married; you are already a helper fit for God's work on earth. That word “suitable helper” is not a title for the wedding day — it’s an identity, a posture, a calling. It means you must be emotionally intelligent, spiritually alert, and mentally mature. You must learn to make decisions that show you understand your purpose. Helping does not mean losing yourself; it means adding value in such a way that your presence solves problems and not multiplies them. Ask yourself often: Is my mindset, behavior, and voice suitable for the future I am praying for?
So, don’t just dream of marriage, dream of the woman God is forming you into. The one who, when life hits hard, doesn’t crumble but kneels. The one who builds, not breaks. The one who brings peace into a room and not chaos. Prepare not just for the beautiful wedding, but for the beautiful strength it will take to keep loving, serving, and growing — through storms and sunshine. You are more than ready to be called a helper; you were born to be one. Now, think like it, behave like it, and let your life preach it.
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values you
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