Proverbs 31:26 describes the virtuous woman: “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” This scripture is a key principle in handling disagreements as a lady of godly value. Disagreement in a relationship is normal, but disrespect is optional. The real test of character is not whether you will ever disagree with your partner, but how you choose to handle those disagreements.
Respect doesn’t vanish just because there’s tension. Even when you’re frustrated, you can communicate your concerns without attacking the other person’s dignity. Saying “I don’t understand why you did this” is different from “You always disappoint me.” One approach invites dialogue; the other provokes defensiveness. Choosing your words wisely reflects emotional maturity and spiritual discipline.
When you disagree without disrespecting, you protect the relationship while still standing firm in your truth. Honor doesn’t mean silence or pretending everything is okay; it means your voice is guided by both love and restraint. You can correct without shaming, question without accusing, and express displeasure without belittling. That is what makes your influence powerful and lasting.
As a lady of godly value, your goal is not to win arguments but to win hearts. And honor is the pathway to that. When you treat your partner with dignity in disagreement, you show him that your love is not conditional on constant agreement but is strong enough to handle differences.
Self-assessment:
1. Do I communicate my frustrations in a way that protects dignity?
2. Am I quick to accuse, or do I seek to understand first?
3. How often do I replace harsh words with respectful questions in conflict?
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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