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The Secret of Speaking with Wisdom and Grace

Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer every man.” A lady of godly value understands that grace and wisdom are inseparable when it comes to communication. Speaking with grace doesn’t mean avoiding the truth; it means clothing the truth in love so it can be received, not resisted. Grace makes your words nourishing, and wisdom ensures they are timely.

It is possible to say the right thing at the wrong time and cause more harm than good. That’s why timing is everything. Wisdom teaches you to discern when to speak, how much to say, and when silence itself speaks louder than words. Grace, on the other hand, keeps your heart soft and your tone gentle, even when the subject is tough. Together, they allow you to navigate sensitive issues without damaging the relationship.

Your words should leave the person you’re speaking to better than you found them. This is the power of “seasoned with salt”—your words carry flavor, preservation, and healing. Without grace, words become blunt instruments; with it, they turn into tools of restoration. You can express disappointment without dishonor, correction without condemnation, and passion without poison. That’s the beauty of speech guided by the Spirit.

As a lady of godly value, never underestimate how much influence your tone, timing, and tenderness hold in your relationship. Speaking with wisdom and grace not only reflects Christ in you but also deepens trust, intimacy, and respect. It makes you unforgettable in the best way.

Self-assessment:

1. Do my words leave others feeling healed or wounded?


2. Am I learning when to speak, when to pause, and when to remain silent?


3. Are my conversations seasoned with grace, or do I often react harshly?

Prince Victor Matthew 

Hope Expression Values You 

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