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Ladies: HELP YOUR SELF

The main purpose why God created woman was to be a SUITABLE HELPER........to a work and responsibility. This is the original blueprint for the female gender or womanhood.

Some ladies are carried away with being a SUITABLE to their future husband......while some think being a SUITABLE HELPER to any man is slavery... They feel...gender equality.

Here is some thing some ladies don't know. YOU CAN ONLY BE USEFUL TO OTHER PEOPLE...ACCORDING TO THE QUALITY OF YOUR OWN USEFULNESS TO YOUR OWN SELF.

You are first the suitable HELPER to your own life...dreams, talent, attitude, mentality, intellect...etc...before you even think of becoming a SUITABLE HELPER to your family, friends and of course, your life partner.

The respect you are so in a hurry to give your life partner...give it to your self first. The time, attention, commitment, listening ears, sacrifices, diligence, love, and care...you are so much in a hurry to give to other people and life partner...learn to feed your self with them first.

I am not writing you should be selfish...I am writing that you should not abandon your own life....in your pursuit of reaching out to others.....don't starve your self of the same thing you are pouring into other people.

The first person to love is your self.
The first person to blame is your self.
The first person to forgive is your self.
The first person to respect is your self.
The first person to be committed to is your self.

You were created to first be a SUITABLE HELPER to your self......so its time to place respect on the purpose of your gender!!!

Depend on the Holy Spirit to set balance in this matter.

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