The main purpose why God created woman was to be a SUITABLE HELPER........to a work and responsibility. This is the original blueprint for the female gender or womanhood. Some ladies are carried away with being a SUITABLE to their future husband......while some think being a SUITABLE HELPER to any man is slavery... They feel...gender equality. Here is some thing some ladies don't know. YOU CAN ONLY BE USEFUL TO OTHER PEOPLE...ACCORDING TO THE QUALITY OF YOUR OWN USEFULNESS TO YOUR OWN SELF. You are first the suitable HELPER to your own life...dreams, talent, attitude, mentality, intellect...etc...before you even think of becoming a SUITABLE HELPER to your family, friends and of course, your life partner. The respect you are so in a hurry to give your life partner...give it to your self first. The time, attention, commitment, listening ears, sacrifices, diligence, love, and care...you are so much in a hurry to give to other people and life partner...learn to feed your self with

The success of other people are meant to inspire you to be better than the way you have been. Its only a display of confusion for you to feel inferior, because of the success of other people. The success of a fellow lady is a prove that nothing, is limiting you too. Shine your shine....its your world, your life and your capacity. Support other ladies doing great work...by so doing...God will raise helpers for you too. All you have known and capable of doing as a lady is useless....if you don't use them to generate success and solution for your self, and the people around you. Greatness is not a male. Success is not a male. They are for human (male & female). A healthy relationship begins with a healthy life. From Ruth to the wife of King David...Abigail.... their husband met them...on duty. They were busy doing what God committed into their hands. If you can't manage your vision and life well....how will any man believe you can manage his own home, vision and unborn