Every woman I know was excited about their wedding day. They couldn't wait to walk down the isle in their long beautiful unique gown to say I do to the man they love and adore. They couldn't wait to hear the words I do from the man they love so much. They were excited about the vows they were about to exchange to one another. The tears dropped, the smiles were bright this was a dream come true. That's how God is feeling about you right now. He can't wait for you to say I do. What are you waiting for? Tomorrow isn't promised. We hear every day someone we know has passed away. He's waiting with his hands reached out to you. He said you don't need a fancy dress, no curls or pearls come as you are he's waiting to hear you say, I do.  Just in case you don’t know what to say let me help you.  I____________ take you Lord to be my first love. To be the head of my house and the love of my life. I promise to obey, pray, and serve you through out the rest o

When you notice this act, bring it up and talk about it. Deal with the issue and make him to understand how it hurts you. If he can't trust you, don't convince him or prove any thing to him. If he cannot respect your feelings and emotions, don't beg for it - LET HIM GO. Define it, take your stand and let him go IF NECESSARY. Respect him but make him to understand that you won't accept the abuse of him testing and toiling with your feelings. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up. Don't be carried away by your emotions. Don't let his looks or any thing entice you. It's not in your power to choose who to say yes or no or wait - your divine assignment, purpose, & calling ought to dicated for you. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up. You are a helpmate, your vision and calling is meant to compliment his own vision. His vision is meant to be the platform for the expression of your own vision in Christ. Your

WHEN HE PROPOSE... The first thing you must understand is that every man has the right to express His intention towards you. Don't you ever make a man feel it's a sign of weakness for him to express his feelings or intention to you. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up. I want you to embrace this truth: Never you despise, insult or take any man for granted because he proposed to you. Even when you are not interested in him, learn to respect him. Some men are not afraid of a lady saying no to their proposal, they just hate how rude, insensitive and abusive the lady throw at them because they proposed. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up. As a lady, you are free to say 'NO' or 'YES' to any man's proposal but how you say YES or NO is what really count. What experience do you leave with the men that have proposed to you? If you respect your self, you will respect the men that have proposed to you. If you a

WHEN HE IS NOT PROPOSING... As a lady, one of the quality of a Godly lady is being friendly. Don't let your insecurity drive you into the place of isolation. This is a necessity you must embrace. Be friendly and know where your limts starts. When He is your friend or when any male friends of yours are in the friend zone - it's perfect. You are meant to keep your male friends at friend zone. Don't give people the wrong impression by allowing a male friend do things around you like you are dating him. When any man comes around you, please do ask him to define the friendship. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up. Some ladies live in assumption, thinking the man is taking his time but this is wrong. keep every male friend where they belong and keep every man at friend zone. How can a man that you have not yet accepted for a serious relationship, call you sweetheart? How can a man that you have not yet accepted for a serious relationship, b

SECURITY Accepting a man for a serious relationship will demand you to be emotionally secure. Are you comfortable with your self? Do you get intimidated by a man’s success? Can you be humble to learn from a man? Are you secure? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. Is your confidence, plans, project and vision strong enough to conquer his fears, worries and doubts? Can you attitude command respect from him or it makes him to doubt his security? Can he be confident to say, I will be fulfilled in life if our children inherit your attitude? How secure is he around you and around the friends you keep? Can he trust you with his money? Can he trust you with his past? Can he be free to be his self without the fear of being judged, condemn or rejected? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. How secure can he be around you? Can you support him, encourage him, and stand up for him in the midst of your friends, his friends and your family? This is God’s pattern for h

FREEDOM AND FLEXIBILITY Are you the kind of Lady that respects a man’s decision? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. Relationship is a platform of freedom and flexibility. It’s not a place for Manipulation and being domineering over a man. This is not a place for you alone; it’s a platform for you and any man you have accepted. This should be a platform where the man’s opinion and decision count. It’s a teamwork – not a lord and servant affair. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. As a Lady, you should be able to give any man the freedom to say, do, and achieve things that surround his own interest, talent and creativity. It’s not all about him becoming what you want. It’s all about him becoming his real self – the person God created him to become. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. You must be a Lady that gives a man the freedom to express and use their talents and creativity. You must be the kind of Lady that is not intimidated by the su

Every friendship must be NEED define. What are you looking for in life? What do you have? What is he looking for in life? What does he have (creativity, vision, ideas)?  You must be able to feed his need and he must be able to feed your need. Your need must be defined through the scriptures, your talent and creativity. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. Friendship is all about feeding each others NEED. You must understand that NEED are either carnal or Godly. You have no business feeding his carnal NEED or him feeding your carnal NEED. Carnal NEEDS are the work of the flesh, lust of the eyes, pride of life, and lust of the flesh. God is not expecting you to feed his carnal NEED or him feeding your carnal NEED.  Godly NEEDS are the self development in the area of your talent, creativity, and the fruit of the spirit. God is expecting you to feed him NEEDS in these areas and he is meant to feed your NEEDS in these areas. This is God’s pattern for handling propos

Relationship is not a path of you shifting your responsibility on a man. It is not a platform of a man living his life for you. Relationship is not a path that should make you a liability to a man. It’s a life that should make you embrace your responsibility for your self. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. If you are lazy, stop looking for an industrious man to date in order for him to be responsibility for your laziness. A man is not meant to be responsible for your laziness. Be responsible for your self. Deal with your own laziness and be industrious before you accept dating a man. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. As a Lady, if you can’t manage your anger, stop frustrating a man that is patient as an excuse for your irresponsibility. Deal with your own anger. No man ought to be responsible for your inability to deal with your own anger. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal. If you don’t know how to spend money wisely, stop waiting f

Amos 3:3 Can two walk together except they agree. You are welcome to LADIES OF GODLY VALUE. In this month of September, we shall be looking into a topic the Holy Spirit has instructed me to teach through His Grace. Last month (August), we looked into the issue of ‘LADIES! WHAT IS THIS YOU HAVE DONE.’ and the Lord was able to deal with certain issues we’ve over looked. Praise God! Let’s go into the business of the day. May the Holy Spirit help you to learn and understand His intention on this subject in Jesus Name. You are welcome to this seminar and on this platform. The Holy Spirit wants to teach us the truth of Him Word. I am writing this by His Grace; I don’t know it all or have it all or seen it all. In Christ Jesus my knowledge in complete. What is PROPOSAL? PROPOSAL is a SUGGESTION, APPLICATION, PLAN or OFFER for a relationship to a man, presents to a lady with the option of her accepting or decline. These usually come with the freedom of choice an

There are certain attitude, mind-set and manner of approach you must cultivate before God chooses to expose you to your greatness. You can’t help yourself, you can’t change your self but you can decide to be available for the Holy Spirit. Your availability will determine how fast God will  MAKE  you. Be available for the studying of God’s word. Be available for the Holy Spirit to transform your priority into God’s Nature. Be available for the Holy Spirit to transform your mindset. Learn to be available. It’s a personal decision you must choose. Eve was  MADE . When you are  MADE , you will be  MADE  into some thing. When your availability gives the Holy Spirit room to operate in your life, you will have the chance to be  MADE . Your availability to the Holy Spirit will make the Holy Spirit to  MAKE  you. The Holy Spirit is interested in  MAKING  you into  CAPACITY . You will be  MADE  into a  GODLY CHARACTER . You will be  MADE  into a  LIFE GIVER . You will be MAD

DEEP SLEEP  is when you are influencing a man to embrace his personal relationship with God. This is you helping any man to understand the scripture. This is you consciously refusing to taken advantage on a man even when you have the chance. DEEP SLEEP  is you consciously avoiding the chance of manipulation a man. This is you learning to talk to any man just the way God wants you to talk to them. This is you listening to any man just the way God wants you to listen to them. This is you treating any man just like Jesus will treat them. DEEP SLEEP  is when you avoid  LORDING  your self over any man.  IT’S YOU KNOWING LOVE IS NOT  all about changing any man into who you want them to be.  IT’S YOU KNOWING THAT ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE ANY MAN TO HIS PLAN.   IT’S A PLACE YOU CHOOSE TO TRUST INSTEAD OF TESTING AND TOILING WITH THE EMOTIONS OF ANY MAN . DEEP SLEEP  is you giving any man  FREEDOM . It’s you giving any man the freedom to discover and pursue their God’s given dream,

Then the Lord God caused the man into a DEEP SLEEP, and took one of the man’s rib and closed up the place from which he had removed it, and made the rib into a woman, and brought her to the man. This is it! Adam exclaimed. “She is part of my own bone and flesh! Her name is ‘woman’ because she was taken out of a man.” Genesis 2:21 – 22 You are welcome to this online seminar –  DEEP SLEEP (Set your love free).  I welcome you to  LADIES OF GODLY VALUE ONLINE SEMINAR  in the name of Jesus. What is  DEEP SLEEP ? DEEP SLEEP  is the lifestyle and an attitude the Holy Spirit develops in every lady through the word of God. This is the total dependency on the Holy Spirit. This is you trusting the Lord with all submission. This is you acknowledging that God is in charge of every details of your life. This is you submitting to the Lordship of Jesus in every area of your life. DEEP SLEEP  is an attitude of humility and loyalty to God and His instruction. This is an act of

You are welcome to this seminar and our case study is Genesis 3:13 Every woman is a suitable helper to some thing or some one. According to our case study, Eve malfunctioned. Eve was created as a suitable helper to Adam for a specific reason. She was a suitable helper to Adam in line of the assignment or vision God gave to Adam (Dress & keep the Garden). Instead of this Eve helped Adam to disobey God. This is the situation with some ladies. Knowingly or unknowingly; some of you are suitable helper to men in the area of disobeying God. God gave you influence over men but it must be towards the man obeying God. The sad aspect of it is this; some ladies have accepted this misbehaviour as a norm. Because your mum or a lady or some body model this negative attitude to you does not mean you are right. Ladies, you must come to understand your design and capacity. You might look simple but you are full of influence and capacity that can make any man to either obey God