Skip to main content

The Proposal - Part 2



Relationship is not a path of you shifting your responsibility on a man. It is not a platform of a man living his life for you. Relationship is not a path that should make you a liability to a man. It’s a life that should make you embrace your responsibility for your self. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

If you are lazy, stop looking for an industrious man to date in order for him to be responsibility for your laziness. A man is not meant to be responsible for your laziness. Be responsible for your self. Deal with your own laziness and be industrious before you accept dating a man. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

As a Lady, if you can’t manage your anger, stop frustrating a man that is patient as an excuse for your irresponsibility. Deal with your own anger. No man ought to be responsible for your inability to deal with your own anger. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

If you don’t know how to spend money wisely, stop waiting for a man that is wealthy. Stop looking for a man to frustrate. Deal with your own weakness and lack of wise spending. Whatsoever your weakness might is, deal with them first before you thinks of importing an unhealthy personality into that man’s life. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

 Before you think of accepting that man for a serious relationship, ARE YOU HEALTHY? CAN YOU DATE YOURSELF AND BE FULFILLED? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Are you emotionally healthy? Are you healthy in the area of your attitude? Are you mentally healthy? What is the quality of the personality you are expecting him to accept? What are you importing into his life; Poison or Life – Frustration or Help? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Before you accept him for a serious relationship, SIT, THINK AND CONSIDER God’s will for your life. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.. 

These are not all you should consider, there are more but this is why my knowledge stops. Consider the following wisely.

FRIENDSHIP

This is the first thing that should be considered. You must come to a place of expecting this man to be your friend.

For any man to be your friend, you should be able to understand the common ground you have with him. What is your priority? What are your values? Do your priorities accept his priority? Do your values accept your values? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

In other to accept any healthy relationship with any man, the first thing to build is FRIENDSHIP. You need to come to a place where you can be yourself around him without him or you feeling embarrassed. He must be able to joke with you, study the bible together, pray together and respect your individual difference. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Balance is needed. The friendship must come to a place of you and him - becoming interested in keeping the friendship at all cost (risk). Friendship is not a one man’s deal. Friendship is about two people who are willingly accepting each other for the aim of achieving a common Godly goal. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

To be continued... 
Labels:
Location: Ibadan, Nigeria

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Ladies! You are Different.

My dear sister, you are not just another girl scrolling through trends—you are a daughter of the Most High God. Your worth is not found in the number of likes, comments, or shares you receive but in the blood that was shed for you on the Cross. Social media may try to define what is “hot,” “trendy,” or “normal,” but you are not called to be normal—you are called to be holy. "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind..." (Romans 12:2). Your identity is not built on algorithms, but on an altar. It is time to pause and ask yourself: Are my dating choices, words, and lifestyle glorifying Jesus or impressing people? The way you talk, post, flirt, and even respond to messages should reflect whose daughter you are. There is no need to mimic the world's way of flirting to feel validated. If he can’t see your value through the lens of Christ, he’s not the one. “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt...” (Colossia...
Post a Comment
Read more

Ladies - Prepare For Destiny

Dear Daughter of God, In this journey of life, don’t just fix your eyes on wedding gowns, proposals, or becoming the perfect wife someday. Go deeper. Learn how to relate with people — how to listen, how to speak with wisdom, how to walk away peacefully, how to say sorry, and how to carry another person's burden without losing your own identity. These are not just skills for marriage, but for life. Human relationship is the field where your godly character is tested and refined. And life, my dear, is full of seasons — some that will make you smile, and others that will challenge your very faith. Prepare for both. You are not just a woman waiting to be married; you are already a helper fit for God's work on earth. That word “suitable helper” is not a title for the wedding day — it’s an identity, a posture, a calling. It means you must be emotionally intelligent, spiritually alert, and mentally mature. You must learn to make decisions that show you understand your purpose. Helping...
Post a Comment
Read more

Ministry & Marriage

I want you to know the female gender is unique and blessed because of the diversity within your nature.  Ministry and Marriage is the glory of any lady.  Your creativity is a ministry. Your character is a ministry. Your mindset or thinking pattern is a ministry. Your intellectual is a ministry. Your anger management is a ministry. The way you treat and talk to people is a ministry. The way you make decision is a ministry. The way you forgive is a ministry. The way you show compassion to people is a ministry. Every activity in you and around you is a ministry.  You possess much wisdom and uniqueness because of your kind of assignment as a female gender.  The success in your ministry is the prove you are ready for marriage.  Don't just come ready for marriage with your beauty and body alone. COME WITH YOUR CAPACITY. Be prepared, keep preparing and come prepared!  accepting a proposal from a man is a ministry. Relationship is a ministr...
Post a Comment
Read more