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THE PROPOSAL - Part 8



When you notice this act, bring it up and talk about it. Deal with the issue and make him to understand how it hurts you. If he can't trust you, don't convince him or prove any thing to him. If he cannot respect your feelings and emotions, don't beg for it - LET HIM GO. Define it, take your stand and let him go IF NECESSARY. Respect him but make him to understand that you won't accept the abuse of him testing and toiling with your feelings. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

Don't be carried away by your emotions. Don't let his looks or any thing entice you. It's not in your power to choose who to say yes or no or wait - your divine assignment, purpose, & calling ought to dicated for you. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

You are a helpmate, your vision and calling is meant to compliment his own vision. His vision is meant to be the platform for the expression of your own vision in Christ. Your vision is meant to be a suitable help to His vision in Christ. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

What ought to dictate who is good for you to accept lies in what God has called you to do in this generation. Your vision and calling in Christ is a pointer to what your future entails and who can fit into your future. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

It's time you allow your calling and vision to set the pace for you. You are not left alone - the Holy Spirit is your helper. Help is available for you - all you need to do is for you to flow to the Rhythm of your calling and vision in Christ.This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

 I can’t teach all things in this subject. I hereby command you to the Holy Spirit to teach and guild you in this subject. May the Holy Spirit help you to become the kind of Lady He has created you to become in Jesus Name

This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Shalom!
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