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The Proposal - Part 5


SECURITY

Accepting a man for a serious relationship will demand you to be emotionally secure. Are you comfortable with your self? Do you get intimidated by a man’s success? Can you be humble to learn from a man? Are you secure? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Is your confidence, plans, project and vision strong enough to conquer his fears, worries and doubts? Can you attitude command respect from him or it makes him to doubt his security? Can he be confident to say, I will be fulfilled in life if our children inherit your attitude? How secure is he around you and around the friends you keep? Can he trust you with his money? Can he trust you with his past? Can he be free to be his self without the fear of being judged, condemn or rejected? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

How secure can he be around you? Can you support him, encourage him, and stand up for him in the midst of your friends, his friends and your family? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Every body loves financial security, even if you don’t have much money to support his vision, are you available? I know you don’t have money but how committed, and sensitivity are you to his business, work, project, talent, creativity...etc? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

If you can’t bring money to the table, you should be able to bring creative ideas, concern, support or availability to the table. Can he count on you to fight him and run with him? MONEY IS NOT EVERY THING BUT BEING AVAILABLE IS EVERY THING. Relationship is made for two people as teammate; don’t make him feel isolated in the relationship just because you don’t have money. Before you accept him for a serious relationship, are you ready for these? This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

SECURITY, PRIVACY, FRIENDSHIP, COMMUNICATION, FLEXIBILITY AND FREEDOM are the issues to consider before you accept him for a serious relationship. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

Before you say yes to him – Be so sure you have dealt with these issues. Before you ask yes to him – Make sure you have settled the individual difference between you and him. Before you ask yes to him – Make sure you have sat with the Holy Spirit to get direction and instruction before you accept him. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

The PROPOSAL is a destiny decision because it will dictate every thing you will experience in the future. Your experience in life will depend on it. It is time for you to get the Holy Spirit involved from the start even before you accept him and journey to the stage of saying YES to him. This is God’s pattern for handling proposal.

To be continued...
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