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The Proposal - Part 6


WHEN HE IS NOT PROPOSING...

As a lady, one of the quality of a Godly lady is being friendly. Don't let your insecurity drive you into the place of isolation. This is a necessity you must embrace. Be friendly and know where your limts starts.

When He is your friend or when any male friends of yours are in the friend zone - it's perfect. You are meant to keep your male friends at friend zone. Don't give people the wrong impression by allowing a male friend do things around you like you are dating him. When any man comes around you, please do ask him to define the friendship. This is what you must consider before proposal shows up.

Some ladies live in assumption, thinking the man is taking his time but this is wrong. keep every male friend where they belong and keep every man at friend zone. How can a man that you have not yet accepted for a serious relationship, call you sweetheart? How can a man that you have not yet accepted for a serious relationship, be following you every where you go? How can a man you are not dating have the right to visit you any time, unannounced and even 9 or 10pm? (and you say we're just friends?)

Be conscious of the value within you. If he is hanging around you and he is not proposing - ask him to define the friendship. If he is just a friend, let him behave as a friend. If he is not confident enough to ask you out, don't help him. If he is scared to ask you out for a serious relationship, he does not deserve you.

Define every friendship surrounding you and place every man on a friend zone. A man do not need to date you before he becomes useful to you. There is more to life than him dating you. If he is not proposing, he should not discourage other men that are interested in you by hanging around you always like you are dating him.

Be friendly, learn greeting attitude, don't be rude and proud. Be a lady of value. Be focus, don't live to impress any man and be your self. be the kind of lady God has created you.

To be continued...

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