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Ladies! What is this you have done? - Part 1


You are welcome to this seminar and our case study is Genesis 3:13

Every woman is a suitable helper to some thing or some one.

According to our case study, Eve malfunctioned. Eve was created as a suitable helper to Adam for a specific reason. She was a suitable helper to Adam in line of the assignment or vision God gave to Adam (Dress & keep the Garden). Instead of this Eve helped Adam to disobey God.

This is the situation with some ladies. Knowingly or unknowingly; some of you are suitable helper to men in the area of disobeying God. God gave you influence over men but it must be towards the man obeying God.

The sad aspect of it is this; some ladies have accepted this misbehaviour as a norm. Because your mum or a lady or some body model this negative attitude to you does not mean you are right.

Ladies, you must come to understand your design and capacity. You might look simple but you are full of influence and capacity that can make any man to either obey God or disobey God.

Ladies! What is this you have done? I know you are hurting and you have being victimize but hurting the men that hurt you or transferring aggression on other men is not the description of your capacity. You have being created as the suitable helper.

What is this you have done? Either you are sixteen or sixty - you have the capacity to help. The issue here is not the fact that you have being unfair to men and your fellow ladies - YOU ARE SO UNFAIR TO YOURSELF.

Ladies! What is this you have done? You have given up on love, trust, your dreams, your relationship, men, and you have even given up on your self. You abuse every body and you have even abused yourself.

Ladies! What is this you have done? You have stopped giving, stop loving, stop hoping, stop caring, and you have even stopped believing in your self. You see no good in other people and you are blinded your self from the good God invested in you.

Ladies! What is this you have done? I know they payed you evil for the good you show to them. I know they didn't value your contribution to the development of their talent - but that should not stop you from helping other people's talent that need your influence to develop.

Ladies! What is this you have done? I am aware that some one talked down on you. It's okay that people doubt you and condemn your ideas, skills and talent. This is not good enough for you to give up on your own talent. You have become a shadow of your self. Stop it! God still believes in you.

Ladies! What is this you have done? I know a man infected you with HIV but that's not a enough reason to consciously transfer to as many men as you can. Don't take laws into your hands. Vengance is of the Lord. The Lord will repay.

Ladies! What is this you have done? You were raped, he stole your virginity from you. Your were victimised and that is wrong but this should not turn this loving aspect of you into a beast. Every other man that's in your life should not pay for the crime they didn't commit. This is not a prove that all men are wicked. Every man has his own uniqueness. Treat men as an individual not generalising concept.

Ladies! What is this you have done? You were sexually active and that is a gift from God to you but this, is not an excuse for you to sleep around with any man or your boy friend or with any man that is willing to pay. ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO TEACH YOU HOW TO MANAGE YOUR SEXUAL URGUE.

Ladies! What is this you have done? Your are a MOTHER and not a MURDER. You are a LIFE-GIVER and not a KILLER. Stop killing yourself with your own words. Stop killing every man that comes your way with gossips, condemning and judgemental attitude. Stop aborting this innocent unborn children. Turn to Jesus to help you.

Open up to Jesus, He can make you whole

To be continued...



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Location: Ibadan, Nigeria

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