I have come to discover through the teachings from the Holy Spirit that the space between being a lady and becoming a wife is ENCOUNTER WITH THE LORD.  The mindset of a wife, the attitude of a wife, the planning of a wife, the concept and perception of a wife and manner of approach of a wife is totally different from a lady.  A wife mentality is future considerate in every decision but a ladies mindset is now and now. She wants it now!.  A lady wants to survive but a wife takes her time to invest in her self. She is conscious of her journey in life than the present comfort.  Becoming a wife is not by wedding grown or engagement ring on your finger. It's a total experience of life and mindset. It's not even possible to be translated from being a lady into becoming a wife without a DIVINE ENCOUNTER with the Holy Spirit.   The bible stated it that, he that finds a WIFE finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.  It's not he who finds a lady. 

Don't complain about any you are not effectively praying about!   The energy it takes to hate and complain or judge some one for his faults, use it to pray for that person.  Let's build each other and not tear each other down.  It's okay to be angry but don't use your anger to hurt what you once loved or loving presently.  If every body complained about you without encouraging you and supporting you in prayers just like you are doing to other people now, are you sure you would have survived till this day?  Most people that have enjoyed helps from destiny helpers are the first to refuse destiny helpers to another person.  Don't let the devil succeed by making you think the other gender is your enemy.  Don't let the negative character of people turn your good heart and character into bitterness and revenge.   Do not be overcome with evil but overcome evil with God.  Mind you, you are not doing any one a favour. You are actuall

I want you to understand that both knowledge and ignorance can frustrate you in this journey of life.  I have observed and notice that what is currently delay people in your gender from entering a healthy relationship is KNOWLEDGE. Some people are limited by ignorance but another wickedness I have seen under the sun is that knowledge is limiting people.  The knowledge you have about relationship and life is to help you and also help other people. On no account must your knowledge become a stumbling block to those around you.  Stop using your knowledge as a weapon to fight people. The fact  that others don't know what you know does not mean they are inferior to you. Don't allow the knowledge God gave you the privilege to know to create pride in your heart.   Shut up for once. Listen to people even if you think you are smarter than them. I also want you to know that all you know now is just a scratch to what is expected of the whole body of Christ. 2 + 8 = 1