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Focus On His Work

It is funny how some ladies have no clue about the reason why God created them into existence. YOU WERE CREATED AS A LADY TO HELP AND SUPPORT THE WORK MAN IS DOING. 
If you don't give attention to the work of a man with a vision and deliberately make effort to make his work easier for him....it will become hard to get his attention. 

DON'T DATE A MAN IF YOU DON'T HAVE PASSION AND INTEREST FOR HIS KIND OF WORK. The best way to get the full attention of a man with a vision is....to make effort to contribute to his work and do all you can to make his work easier. If you are not sensitive to his work....he won't be sensitive to you.

Be deliberate to know the pains, struggles and challenges he is going through in the area of his work....ask him how you can be of help and look within yourself and do your best to relief him of his stress and tension.

A man's attention is the most expensive. Stop asking for it....earn it. If you are not useful to his work now....you won't be needed in his future. Instead of complaining he has not time for you....be sensitive to his work and be available to know the state of things and how you can be of help......and then you will have his attention. DON'T BEG FOR HIS ATTENTION....EARN IT.

The reason why God gave you that man for a relationship is for you to offer him your suitable help....to his work. A mans life is in his work...vision or profession.

HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

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