Wisdom is in you knowing your limits in peoples business. Maturity is in you knowing the limits of people in your business. Irrespective of how close you are to some one...if you want to help or assist some one...first of all seek their permission. Surprise package is good but be careful to understand who you are dealing with.
Using my self as an example...I don't care if its millions or trillions you want to use as surprise package for me....it will offend me..instead of impress me. I am a man with plans and am deliberate about my plan....I program my day, weeks and months through my goals.... So any surprise package will be interrupting my fixed plan.
Don't think you know what some one needs...its more honourable to ask people....I want to help you, how do you want me to help you? Stop impose and enforcing assistance to people. Be wise to know things this person does not want your help. Its wise for you to wait for people to ask for help before you render help. We have individual differences, know this person, understand this person and relate with then according to your knowledge about them.
Mind your business and also learn to help other people to mind their business too. This is Gods will for your life.
HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you
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