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HAVE A LIFE OF YOUR OWN

Every woman was created as a support system and suitable help to humanity in general. A lady is God's daughter created and equipped to be useful to her generation and to her husband. Marriage is just one of the aspect of a place a lady displays her value and asset. A lady was not just created for marriage, she is created for rendering support to her parents, siblings, her generation, her husband and her children... even the future generations.

Aside the desire of being married, what else can you see about your future? What is the measure of your relevance in the life of the people in your past, present and future? Who is benefitting Godly help because of your existence? You were not created just for marriage, God have created you to be a support system to humanity first, before you become a support system in your marriage.

As a lady, you are supported to know your own calling, have a specific direction in life, understand your vision, walking in your life assignment and generating a specific kind of support system to every one that cross your path. Your life is supposed to be known for a specific help you are rendering humanity. Have a life of your own. Discover and define your own identity as a lady.

You must submit to the Holy Spirit and God's Word to transform you daily into a Godly support system and suitable helper. You were created by God to be useful to humanity and in marriage physically, Spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, socially, financially, capacity, idea wise and in the society at large.

Stop waiting for marriage to define your worth. Stop waiting for a man to define your direction. Stop hiding under what people or a man believe about you. Step into God's Word, gain the clarity of your identity and relevance to humanity. All you are supposed to be, must be an alignment to the plan of God. Your relevance should compliment the effort of your fellow ladies and the men around you. It's not a selfish adventure or gender battle.

Have a life of your own in Christ, before you seek for a life partner to share your life with in marriage. This is the will of God for your life. Be inspired and launch into the best of God's capacity within you.

Prince Victor Matthew 

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