What can a single person do to make themselves “available” without looking desperate? You’re approaching your mid-twenties, mid-thirties, and maybe even mid-forties as a single young adult.  It seems like everyone around you is getting ushered into the world of love and marriage, while you find yourself wondering if you will ever find the one.  You’re torn between trusting God to bring you the right one- and working it in the world of love and dating.   So, how exactly does a single young adult make themselves available without seeming too desperate? The only way to avoid looking desperate is to stop believing that you are, because a person will appear as desperate as they feel.  The more fixated you are on finding love and obsessed about entering marriage, the more desperate you will appear, because eventually, the things that you think about most start seeping into every part of your life for the whole world to see. Here are some ways to stop fixating on your fears and

If you’re anything like many of the single women I’ve come into contact with, you have pretty much given up on the idea of being recklessly pursued by a man. Forget the fairy-tale dream of being chased after in an attempt to win your heart.  Forget the love letters, the roses, the poems and songs.  Forget it all. At this point in life,  you’ll settle for about any sign of pursuit…heck, any sign of life from the opposite sex. So what is it about these guys that is keeping them from pursuing you?  Why have so many men failed to step it up and make the move? Though I can’t speak from all men... I have spoken to a number of friends and gotten a lot of feedback.  Let me fill you in a little on what some of them might be thinking: 1.  He doesn’t know you’re interested:  Ladies here’s the thing about you- you think you can read everyone’s mind.  But believe it or not, that super-hero power doesn’t exist…and it especially doesn’t exist when it comes to the men in your lives.   The

John 10:10  The thief cometh not, but for to STEAL, and to KILL, and to DESTROY: I am come that they might have LIFE, and that they might have it more abundantly.   What is the GIFT OF LOVE? The GIFT OF LOVE is a LIFESTYLE and a personality that has a desire to give LIFE. The GIFT OF LOVE is the experience of Eternal LIFE manifesting through humans. The GIFT OF LOVE is an attitude and mindset that is rooted in Gods nature. The GIFT OF LOVE is the nature of LOVE as an experience in people’s lives. The GIFT OF LOVE is not a feeling; it’s an experience. The GIFT OF LOVE is the freedom you offer to the people around you. The GIFT OF LOVE is the absence of manipulation and domineering attitude. The GIFT OF LOVE is the truth and trust from God perspective. The GIFT OF LOVE is the value you add to peoples lives with a pure and Godly motive. The GIFT OF LOVE is any lady in CHRIST, living and walking in Gods Nature. Who is the GIFT OF LOVE? The GIFT OF LOVE is LIFE. The GI

My sisters!  When you felt like giving up, God told you to hold your head up. He sent some one to let you know, It’s time for you to let go, Of The hurt from the father that never bothered,  Let It Go The friends that promised to be there through thick and thin, that walked out on you, Let It Go The words that was said, “you would never amount to anything,” Let It Go The man that promised you a ring, instead you became another one of his flings,    Let It Go When you shared your deepest secrets with a friend and they put it in the wind, Let It Go The people that spread rumors about you that wasn’t true, Let It Go The abuse from your childhood, that has a stronghold on your mind,  Let It Go   The bad choices you made during your teenage years, Let It Go The names that people called you that brought you to tears,  Let It Go  Ladies let it go. Holding on to all these things, will cause you to become bitter, and

Martial journey is honorable. Everyone desires a peaceful and love-filled relationship or marriage. Many ladies have a lot of misconceptions about attracting the right man into their lives. Some think it’s by dressing half-naked or by easily getting laid that attracts men to them. This way, however, you will certainly earn some attention, but the question is: who are they? Are they men you would like to spend the rest of your life with? Today, I want to look at how a Christian lady can attract a Godly man for marriage. As mentioned earlier, worldly people employ all-kinds of unwholesome style but Christians MUST stand-out in the following ways. DECENCY There is a saying that the way you dress is the way you’re addressed. Christian ladies must make sure that they dress and present themselves well. Let me tell you: men are visual and no man, including Christian men, who will not recognize when he sees a lady he likes. And how do you as a Christian lady attract his att

Every woman I know was excited about their wedding day. They couldn't wait to walk down the isle in their long beautiful unique gown to say I do to the man they love and adore. They couldn't wait to hear the words I do from the man they love so much. They were excited about the vows they were about to exchange to one another. The tears dropped, the smiles were bright this was a dream come true. That's how God is feeling about you right now. He can't wait for you to say I do. What are you waiting for? Tomorrow isn't promised. We hear every day someone we know has passed away. He's waiting with his hands reached out to you. He said you don't need a fancy dress, no curls or pearls come as you are he's waiting to hear you say, I do.  Just in case you don’t know what to say let me help you.  I____________ take you Lord to be my first love. To be the head of my house and the love of my life. I promise to obey, pray, and serve you through out the rest o

Proverbs.16:28 A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends. Proverbs 18:7–8 (NIV) A fool’s mouth is his undoing, and his lips are a snare to his soul. The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to a man’s inmost parts. Women of God, do you remember this saying? Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. By now you have come to grips that words are powerful. The Bible says Proverbs 18:21 (NLT) The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences. Ladies, God desires that our speech be used to edify and encourage others, not tear them down. It has to stop!!! God is not pleased with all this foolishness. Stop being the dumpster, letting people drop trash inside of you. Stop listening to it, cut the person off before they get started. If you are the gossiper, stop it, one day you may look around and be the very one someone is putting their mouth on. Want feel so good then.