I have come to discover through the teachings from the Holy Spirit that the space between being a lady and becoming a wife is ENCOUNTER WITH THE LORD.  The mindset of a wife, the attitude of a wife, the planning of a wife, the concept and perception of a wife and manner of approach of a wife is totally different from a lady.  A wife mentality is future considerate in every decision but a ladies mindset is now and now. She wants it now!.  A lady wants to survive but a wife takes her time to invest in her self. She is conscious of her journey in life than the present comfort.  Becoming a wife is not by wedding grown or engagement ring on your finger. It's a total experience of life and mindset. It's not even possible to be translated from being a lady into becoming a wife without a DIVINE ENCOUNTER with the Holy Spirit.   The bible stated it that, he that finds a WIFE finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.  It's not he who finds a lady. 

Don't complain about any you are not effectively praying about!   The energy it takes to hate and complain or judge some one for his faults, use it to pray for that person.  Let's build each other and not tear each other down.  It's okay to be angry but don't use your anger to hurt what you once loved or loving presently.  If every body complained about you without encouraging you and supporting you in prayers just like you are doing to other people now, are you sure you would have survived till this day?  Most people that have enjoyed helps from destiny helpers are the first to refuse destiny helpers to another person.  Don't let the devil succeed by making you think the other gender is your enemy.  Don't let the negative character of people turn your good heart and character into bitterness and revenge.   Do not be overcome with evil but overcome evil with God.  Mind you, you are not doing any one a favour. You are actuall

I want you to understand that both knowledge and ignorance can frustrate you in this journey of life.  I have observed and notice that what is currently delay people in your gender from entering a healthy relationship is KNOWLEDGE. Some people are limited by ignorance but another wickedness I have seen under the sun is that knowledge is limiting people.  The knowledge you have about relationship and life is to help you and also help other people. On no account must your knowledge become a stumbling block to those around you.  Stop using your knowledge as a weapon to fight people. The fact  that others don't know what you know does not mean they are inferior to you. Don't allow the knowledge God gave you the privilege to know to create pride in your heart.   Shut up for once. Listen to people even if you think you are smarter than them. I also want you to know that all you know now is just a scratch to what is expected of the whole body of Christ. 2 + 8 = 1

I just discovered of recent that the obstacle of youths is Grace. Looking around me I can see how youths and even teenagers are so hungry for attention, affection, respect and approval at all cost. That's not the problem. We are wired to seek  for these things but some people don't stay with the Grace God has given them. No body can value you above the value the Grace God has given you will offer to you. Some times, people put laws into their own hands. They put up attitudes, create events and situation to set up  and create value and respect for their selves. But unknowingly to them, their pursuit to create respect and value for their own self is what is tearing the value and respect God's Grace is preserving for them. Don't make any body like you. Don't prove to any body you are valuable and unique. Don't use your own fears and doubt to judge people. The greatest challenge of people is that, they don't feel respected because they are not co

I want you to know the female gender is unique and blessed because of the diversity within your nature.  Ministry and Marriage is the glory of any lady.  Your creativity is a ministry. Your character is a ministry. Your mindset or thinking pattern is a ministry. Your intellectual is a ministry. Your anger management is a ministry. The way you treat and talk to people is a ministry. The way you make decision is a ministry. The way you forgive is a ministry. The way you show compassion to people is a ministry. Every activity in you and around you is a ministry.  You possess much wisdom and uniqueness because of your kind of assignment as a female gender.  The success in your ministry is the prove you are ready for marriage.  Don't just come ready for marriage with your beauty and body alone. COME WITH YOUR CAPACITY. Be prepared, keep preparing and come prepared!  accepting a proposal from a man is a ministry. Relationship is a ministry.  What is ministry?

You are a lady but not lazy. You are a woman but not weak Pursue all the Lord has kept in your hands and heart Live above your fears, worries and doubt Turn your pain to passion. you may loose all but don't loose your peace of mind Let this mind be in you just as it is in Christ Jesus.  Be encouraged

Beloved of God!  I have always be writing that it's necessary for you to be friendly but I also want to set a balance to it.  Being a Godly lady comes with a lot of expectations and people observing you to see if you will live according  to what you believe  .       *Be friendly but don't be cheap!*  My sisters, my heart bleeds when I see lady become so cheap in her pursuit of being friendly.  It's okay for you to be friendly, pick your calls or call back when you see miss calls. It's okay to reply whatsup message etc. But please, stop picking the calls of people who are not saying any thing meaningful. Stop picking the calls of people who have no value to add to your calling, creativity or spiritual growth.  Be friendly but avoid people that kill your time and people with empty and useless conversations. Avoid people with empty jokes, and gossip.  I have always taught you not to play hard to get when a man is interested in you, but I wan