Being a lady is an opportunity of displaying the capacity of God as a suitable helper. Being a lady is journey from being a lady, to being a friend, to being a lover, to being a wife, and to being a mother. Each of these capacity must benefit the Body of Christ, your parents, society and your marriage. Without marriage, you can fulfill your Divine Purpose for existence. Marriage is just a tool or platform to have a team mate under the covenant of marriage to display your Divine Purpose. With or without marriage, you are a lady with Divine Purpose, on a Divine mission to generate a suitable help...to the society according to your own capacity. Every lady is a female but the capacity of each lady differs from another. Stop comparing your self with your fellow ladies. Be content with your own capacity and keep improving your capacity to function better than your previous level of success. Ladies need to learn to start supporting ladies and supporting men too. Striving for a success that d

The strength of a lady is in her ability to sustain whatsoever God have entrusted into her care. It takes grace to access some things but it is wisdom that helps you sustains issues of life. Opportunities, love and destiny Helpers crosses your path daily, but how have you been able to sustain them? Your godly attitude is more important than your strength of prayer. It is important to cultivate a healthy prayer life as a lady, but much more... It is important that you cultivate a Godly attitude. It takes a godly attitude to sustain any thing in life as a lady. Your attitude is more stronger than your words and prayers. Make it a duty to daily cultivate a healthy godly attitude along side your prayer life. This is the will of God for your life. Either you are provoked to anger or note.. be Intentional in reflecting the attitude of God. In all, let the fruit of the Spirit flourish in you daily. Stop waiting for dating or marriage to behave nice. Be kind and nice to people on a daily bases

Wisdom is in you knowing your limits in peoples business. Maturity is in you knowing the limits of people in your business. Irrespective of how close you are to some one...if you want to help or assist some one...first of all seek their permission. Surprise package is good but be careful to understand who you are dealing with. Using my self as an example...I don't care if its millions or trillions you want to use as surprise package for me....it will offend me..instead of impress me. I am a man with plans and am deliberate about my plan....I program my day, weeks and months through my goals.... So any surprise package will be interrupting my fixed plan. Don't think you know what some one needs...its more honourable to ask people....I want to help you, how do you want me to help you? Stop impose and enforcing assistance to people. Be wise to know things this person does not want your help. Its wise for you to wait for people to ask for help before you render help. We have indivi

Its good to have great plans and expectation for this year 2021....but what's your daily preparation for the kind of future you believe you are heading to? How have you being practically preparing for your future? How have you being preparing your self for the kind of husband you are trusting God to bring your way? How have you being preparing for the kind of business you are trusting God to help you establish in future? Jump out of your wishing state...and move to action. You need mental preparation, emotional preparation, spiritual preparation, financial preparation and physical preparation. May your story not be like the five foolish virgins...that failed because they didn't carry EXTRA OIL...with them. What's that extra effort, preparation, and commitment you are not offering your self...that can disadvantage you tomorrow? This is your day....readjust your self!!!! HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

I know this friend of yours might be your childhood friend. I know you hold a lot of past experience and events together. She is your friend and let her remain that way. Stop discussing every thing and any thing you and your lover or husband discuss.  For the married ladies....avoid discussing your sexual life with your husband to any of your friends....or they might use it against him and tempt him.....smiling face is not smiling heart. Avoid setting your husband up for sexual temptation because you don't know how to shut your mouth up. What is your friends business with the way your husband loves to be hugged...his best sex position...and how many round he can go in sex. Be a covering to your husband and stop exposing him to battles that shouldn't even disturb him at all. Set boundaries... Let your friend be your friend....let your husband be your husband and let your lover be your lover. Its your responsibility to protect the privacy of the sexual or romantic life of your lo

Stop waiting for some one to help. Stop blaming men that they are stingy and begin to invest in your self. Are you really giving your self the suitable help God ordained you to offer your self? Are you really doing for your self what only you should be doing for your self? Admit your fault, take the blame and start doing some thing with your life by investing in your self development. You are not just a lady but a ladder that connect people from ignorance to knowledge....from frustration to success. This is the will of God for your life. Being a female is a calling....embrace your call!!! HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you!!!

Always remember who you are to this generation. Live beyond the consciousness of dating and marriage. Let whosoever you will date or marry be in alignment with your purpose or dream or life assignment. You are not for pity.  There is a time to be single... Busy developing your self and investing in your capacity, attitude and manner of approach. There is also a time for relationship, sharing your dream and deliberately building a future. You are not just wired by God for relationship alone and you are not just an emotional being. You are a physical, social, intellectual and financial being. You are a unique package all by your self. This is the will of God for you. HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.