Stop sexualizing your worth. There is more to your life than your body figures. You worth more than what's appealing to the social media or the men that are thirsty of lusting over you. As a Godly lady, you must understand that you were created for more and that's you a suitable helper. There is a specific solution God have wired you to solve in this generation and you must pay attention to it. Whose pain do you feel the most? Whose cry gets your attention the most? What are the errors that angers you the most? What kind of burden is the scriptures birthing in your mind? Pay attention to them and see how you can use what you have to provide solutions. Your kind of idea is a solution. Your thinking pattern is a solution. Your manner of approach to life situation is unique. You were not made for sex, dating and marriage alone. You were made as God's daughter, representing the interest of God. Doing this as a solution to the area of the burdens in your heart. This is the will

Every woman was created as a support system and suitable help to humanity in general. A lady is God's daughter created and equipped to be useful to her generation and to her husband. Marriage is just one of the aspect of a place a lady displays her value and asset. A lady was not just created for marriage, she is created for rendering support to her parents, siblings, her generation, her husband and her children... even the future generations. Aside the desire of being married, what else can you see about your future? What is the measure of your relevance in the life of the people in your past, present and future? Who is benefitting Godly help because of your existence? You were not created just for marriage, God have created you to be a support system to humanity first, before you become a support system in your marriage. As a lady, you are supported to know your own calling, have a specific direction in life, understand your vision, walking in your life assignment and generating

Being a lady is an opportunity of displaying the capacity of God as a suitable helper. Being a lady is journey from being a lady, to being a friend, to being a lover, to being a wife, and to being a mother. Each of these capacity must benefit the Body of Christ, your parents, society and your marriage. Without marriage, you can fulfill your Divine Purpose for existence. Marriage is just a tool or platform to have a team mate under the covenant of marriage to display your Divine Purpose. With or without marriage, you are a lady with Divine Purpose, on a Divine mission to generate a suitable help...to the society according to your own capacity. Every lady is a female but the capacity of each lady differs from another. Stop comparing your self with your fellow ladies. Be content with your own capacity and keep improving your capacity to function better than your previous level of success. Ladies need to learn to start supporting ladies and supporting men too. Striving for a success that d

The strength of a lady is in her ability to sustain whatsoever God have entrusted into her care. It takes grace to access some things but it is wisdom that helps you sustains issues of life. Opportunities, love and destiny Helpers crosses your path daily, but how have you been able to sustain them? Your godly attitude is more important than your strength of prayer. It is important to cultivate a healthy prayer life as a lady, but much more... It is important that you cultivate a Godly attitude. It takes a godly attitude to sustain any thing in life as a lady. Your attitude is more stronger than your words and prayers. Make it a duty to daily cultivate a healthy godly attitude along side your prayer life. This is the will of God for your life. Either you are provoked to anger or note.. be Intentional in reflecting the attitude of God. In all, let the fruit of the Spirit flourish in you daily. Stop waiting for dating or marriage to behave nice. Be kind and nice to people on a daily bases

Wisdom is in you knowing your limits in peoples business. Maturity is in you knowing the limits of people in your business. Irrespective of how close you are to some one...if you want to help or assist some one...first of all seek their permission. Surprise package is good but be careful to understand who you are dealing with. Using my self as an example...I don't care if its millions or trillions you want to use as surprise package for me....it will offend me..instead of impress me. I am a man with plans and am deliberate about my plan....I program my day, weeks and months through my goals.... So any surprise package will be interrupting my fixed plan. Don't think you know what some one needs...its more honourable to ask people....I want to help you, how do you want me to help you? Stop impose and enforcing assistance to people. Be wise to know things this person does not want your help. Its wise for you to wait for people to ask for help before you render help. We have indivi

Its good to have great plans and expectation for this year 2021....but what's your daily preparation for the kind of future you believe you are heading to? How have you being practically preparing for your future? How have you being preparing your self for the kind of husband you are trusting God to bring your way? How have you being preparing for the kind of business you are trusting God to help you establish in future? Jump out of your wishing state...and move to action. You need mental preparation, emotional preparation, spiritual preparation, financial preparation and physical preparation. May your story not be like the five foolish virgins...that failed because they didn't carry EXTRA OIL...with them. What's that extra effort, preparation, and commitment you are not offering your self...that can disadvantage you tomorrow? This is your day....readjust your self!!!! HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

I know this friend of yours might be your childhood friend. I know you hold a lot of past experience and events together. She is your friend and let her remain that way. Stop discussing every thing and any thing you and your lover or husband discuss.  For the married ladies....avoid discussing your sexual life with your husband to any of your friends....or they might use it against him and tempt him.....smiling face is not smiling heart. Avoid setting your husband up for sexual temptation because you don't know how to shut your mouth up. What is your friends business with the way your husband loves to be hugged...his best sex position...and how many round he can go in sex. Be a covering to your husband and stop exposing him to battles that shouldn't even disturb him at all. Set boundaries... Let your friend be your friend....let your husband be your husband and let your lover be your lover. Its your responsibility to protect the privacy of the sexual or romantic life of your lo