The main purpose why God created woman was to be a SUITABLE HELPER........to a work and responsibility. This is the original blueprint for the female gender or womanhood. Some ladies are carried away with being a SUITABLE to their future husband......while some think being a SUITABLE HELPER to any man is slavery... They feel...gender equality. Here is some thing some ladies don't know. YOU CAN ONLY BE USEFUL TO OTHER PEOPLE...ACCORDING TO THE QUALITY OF YOUR OWN USEFULNESS TO YOUR OWN SELF. You are first the suitable HELPER to your own life...dreams, talent, attitude, mentality, intellect...etc...before you even think of becoming a SUITABLE HELPER to your family, friends and of course, your life partner. The respect you are so in a hurry to give your life partner...give it to your self first. The time, attention, commitment, listening ears, sacrifices, diligence, love, and care...you are so much in a hurry to give to other people and life partner...learn to feed your self with

The success of other people are meant to inspire you to be better than the way you have been. Its only a display of confusion for you to feel inferior, because of the success of other people. The success of a fellow lady is a prove that nothing, is limiting you too. Shine your shine....its your world, your life and your capacity. Support other ladies doing great work...by so doing...God will raise helpers for you too. All you have known and capable of doing as a lady is useless....if you don't use them to generate success and solution for your self, and the people around you. Greatness is not a male. Success is not a male. They are for human (male & female). A healthy relationship begins with a healthy life. From Ruth to the wife of King David...Abigail.... their husband met them...on duty. They were busy doing what God committed into their hands. If you can't manage your vision and life well....how will any man believe you can manage his own home, vision and unborn

As a lady either single or dating or courting....if your prayer life is low at this stage....tell me, what kind of a woman will you become in Future? What kind of a wife will you become in Future? Which kind of a mother will you become in Future. I am who I am today because of a praying mother that stood by me while growing up. Can your unborn children speak of this same kind of testimony about you? You are a lady that have respect for your future yet you don't do midnight prayers, you can't remember when last you fast and pray for your calling, vision, direction in life, and MARITAL destiny. Are you not yet tried of men hurting you? Don't blame the men. They are not the challenge.... Blame your self for taking decisions about your friends or Relationship outside your prayer altar. If you will escape the deception in this generation as a lady, you must be ready to pray your self through and pray your self out. Be a praying lady. Pray ahead concerning all your fears,

You are a lady and the only purpose for God creating the female gender according to the book of Genesis 2, was for SUITABLE HELP. You are a lady and your primary reason to be on earth is to be a suitable help, firstly to your self....then your family, future husband and to your generation. You all will get married as the months and years goes by but don't be decieved. You need to be a suitable help to YOURSELF also. How much have you helped your self? How much have you appreciated yourself? How much have you respected yourself and create time for your self?.. Some of you don't have time for all these when it comes to you....but you have all these time for other people. Some of you even insult your self simply because you want to respect some one else. Some of you don't even see it fit to create time for your self or even self development. *You are designed to be a suitable help but whatever dimension you were designed to help your family, future spouse or this genera

I want you to understand that as Gods daughter, the first thing you need in a time as this is DIRECTION. You can't just live your life without a specific direction. You cant be every where, a friend to every body, and doing every thing that comes your life. God didn't create you by chance so you don't have the right to live your life by chance. God deliberately created you for his own glory...You must be deliberate about your direction in life. Do you have a clue of the direction your life is heading as a lady? Progress is not enough; are you progressing in the direction God as ordain for your life? Success is not a prove you are in the right direction...you be successful moving in the wrong direction. Its time to involve God in every of your decision....the strength of your direction in life is in your decision. If your decision is wrong, your direction in life will be wrong. It's time to pause, think and ask the Holy Spirit, AM I IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION? Its no

You are Gods daughter and you were created for the best. Your life is not just about dating and relationship alone... You are a complete human. Invest into your intellectual capacity. Invest in your Character, talent and ideas or manner of approach. You are not just a lady, you are a weapon of impact. You are a solution to this generation. You are an answer to this generation. You were born for an assignment that will please the Lord.... You are not just born for relationship or marriage. Cease every opportunity to cooperate with God through the studying of Gods word to know his plans for your life. You are better than this... Embrace the future. Prepare for the future. #HopeExpression Prince Victor Matthew +2348139635230

I have come to discover through the teachings from the Holy Spirit that the space between being a lady and becoming a wife is ENCOUNTER WITH THE LORD.  The mindset of a wife, the attitude of a wife, the planning of a wife, the concept and perception of a wife and manner of approach of a wife is totally different from a lady.  A wife mentality is future considerate in every decision but a ladies mindset is now and now. She wants it now!.  A lady wants to survive but a wife takes her time to invest in her self. She is conscious of her journey in life than the present comfort.  Becoming a wife is not by wedding grown or engagement ring on your finger. It's a total experience of life and mindset. It's not even possible to be translated from being a lady into becoming a wife without a DIVINE ENCOUNTER with the Holy Spirit.   The bible stated it that, he that finds a WIFE finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.  It's not he who finds a lady.