You are a lady but not lazy. You are a woman but not weak Pursue all the Lord has kept in your hands and heart Live above your fears, worries and doubt Turn your pain to passion. you may loose all but don't loose your peace of mind Let this mind be in you just as it is in Christ Jesus.  Be encouraged

Beloved of God!  I have always be writing that it's necessary for you to be friendly but I also want to set a balance to it.  Being a Godly lady comes with a lot of expectations and people observing you to see if you will live according  to what you believe  .       *Be friendly but don't be cheap!*  My sisters, my heart bleeds when I see lady become so cheap in her pursuit of being friendly.  It's okay for you to be friendly, pick your calls or call back when you see miss calls. It's okay to reply whatsup message etc. But please, stop picking the calls of people who are not saying any thing meaningful. Stop picking the calls of people who have no value to add to your calling, creativity or spiritual growth.  Be friendly but avoid people that kill your time and people with empty and useless conversations. Avoid people with empty jokes, and gossip.  I have always taught you not to play hard to get when a man is interested in you, but I wan

My Sisters,  Wisdom is the strength of beauty but understanding is the life of beauty.  Beauty or intelligence has nothing to do with you being unfriendly. A 34 years old lady share her story with me and what unfriendly attitude has caused her.  When you are not friendly in nature, you push people away from your self and when you need a serious relationship, and you become friendly ; it will paint you desperate because on a normal Day - no guy knows you as a friendly lady.  Being friendly in nature is the greatest gift you can ever give your self as a lady. Be friendly for the sake of being friendly even if the guy will not date you. Some men are just destined to be friends with you; adding value to your life. A man is just meant to be your friend first, then grow into intimacy with you from that stage of friendship. A song writer wrote, HOW CAN WE BE LOVERS WHEN WE CANT BE FRIEND?  This drama of knowing a guy for the very first time and the next thing is

Accept at Foresight Habakkuk 2:1 I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me, and what I shall answer when I am reproved.   As a lady, the first step to accept at foresight is in you standing. A lot of ladies are sleeping in ignorance, procrastination, and excuses; this is not the will of God. Some ladies that are standing are standing in pride, greed, lust, and ignorance; this not the will of God. Teenagers and youths are confused of their future because no mother modelled the attitude of standing for them. As a lady standing is you knowing who God has created you to be. Standing is self discovering through the Word of God. Standing is being responsible and accountable to God in every aspect of you life. My sisters, God created you a female so you can stand; stand for your self, standing for your siblings and your generation. To stand is you studying and meditating on the scriptures. If you must accept at fore

Ladies of Godly Value I want to start by asking you this question; WHAT ARE YOUR CORE VALUES?  I was in the midst of 15 ladies and all these ladies are graduates of university. None of them even know what a "core value" mean. I was shocked and at first I thought it was a joke but sadly it's not. Marriage is God's plan for you but allow the consciousness of who to marry to blind you from the necessity of life is dangerous. What are your core values? Have you define your core values?  Who is influencing your core values? Is God pleased with your core values? Have you written your core values?         What is core value? Core values are the fundamental beliefs of a person or organization. These guiding principles dictate behavior and can help people understand the difference between right and wrong. Core values also help companies to determine if they are on the right path and fulfilling their goals by creating an unwavering

Beloved!  I have being saying and the scriptures agrees with me that every ladies is a suitable helper - to her generation and to her future spouses (for singles) In this same truth I have discovered that the devil is take advantage of this truth to misled God's daughter. Becoming a suitable help or developing the capacity of a suitable help is not you abandoning your life and what God has called you to do. No! What this really implies is you embracing it more!  Becoming a suitable helper is not a call to deny your self and live your life for a man or for your generation. Becoming a suitable helper is you accepting your self, and giving your self the suitable help you need to become all God has created you to become. You can never become a suitable helper to any one if you have not yet learnt the art of you offering your self the suitable help you need to offer your life.  You will never be able to support and bear the weight of any man's vision unti

I am not here to teach you. I am here just to suggest an idea to you. You are free to discard it or embrace it!  I don't know it all. I don't have it all. I have not seen it all. I am not better than you. You have your uniqueness and I have mine. So on the ground of co-human, I present my suggestion I will focus on a subject tagged: *Your dream relationship* First thing first - your dream relationship.  I will start by this: RELATIONSHIP was created for you and apart from relationship, you worth a value.  Your dream relationship will never become real if you lack the accurate knowledge and understanding of your *identity* Who are you? This is the first question, you should be able to define and identify. My sister, I am an advocate for ladies and I believe that ladies were not just created for relationship and marriage and child bearing alone. As a matter of truth, this ought to be the last thing on the list when it co